70th birthday gift ideas that are not another sweater
At seventy the good gifts point in two directions: back over the years they have lived, and forward to the ones they are looking forward to. A sweater does neither.
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A birthday song a daughter made for her dad, from five sentences
Birthday · for a dad
A country birthday song for a dad who raised five girls
Country · Nostalgic · Male vocal
What they wrote: My dad is my the person I look up to most. He spent his life working to provide for all five of us girls and was always our...
Story, lyrics and the songWhat changes at seventy
By seventy most people have stopped acquiring. The house is full, the wardrobe is set, and the things they want are rarely things at all. What they do want, if you listen at the dinner table, is to be reminded that the years counted for something and to be around the people they count. That is why the gifts that land at seventy are so different from the ones that land at thirty: they are about the story, the family, and time together.
The research on gift-giving and on aging points the same way. Van Boven and Gilovich (2003) found that experiences tend to make people happier than possessions, and the effect grows over time. And Carstensen, Isaacowitz and Charles (1999) showed that as people sense their time is more limited, they put emotionally meaningful relationships and moments ahead of almost everything else, which is exactly what you see at a seventieth. So this list starts with the gifts that carry the story and ends with the things you can wrap, in that order.
Gifts that carry the story
These are the ones that get shown to visitors for the next ten years.
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A song about their seventy years
Type the story, where they grew up, who they married, the five girls they raised, the thing they always say, and it comes back as a real song in the music they play. Their name in the chorus, the decades in the verses. You read the lyrics and hear it before paying, so there is nothing to get wrong.
The song above this list was made by a daughter for a dad who raised five girls and drove them to watch the sunset on the quad.
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The book of them
Photos and one memory from every person in the family, printed as a hardback. Six weeks of collecting, an hour to read, and then it lives on the coffee table.
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A letter from everyone
One page each, from each child and grandchild, about one specific thing they did. In a box, read aloud after dinner or alone the next morning.
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The seventy-year playlist
One song for each year, or one for each decade, from the radio they grew up with to the songs at the wedding. Put it on their phone with their name as the title.
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Their story, recorded
Sit them down with a phone and ask about their childhood, their first job, how they met your other parent. Two hours of audio the grandchildren will play in forty years.
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A framed map of where it started
The street they grew up on, the town where they met, the place the family was made. Printed, framed, dated.
Time with the family
At seventy, the people are the present. Give them a reason to be in one place.
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The whole family, one table
Rent the house, book the restaurant, or just cook. The photograph of everyone at that table is the gift they did not know they wanted.
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A trip back
To the town they grew up in, the university, the church they were married in. Go with them and let them narrate.
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A grandchild weekend
Two nights with the grandchildren and nobody else. It is a gift to them and a gift to you.
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The show they never got to
The singer they played in the car, the musical, the ballgame at the stadium they always talk about. Tickets with a date on them, and someone to go with.
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A portrait session with everyone in it
Not a studio. The garden, one photographer, an hour, all the generations. They are usually the one taking the photos; put them in the middle of this one.
Have the story of their seventy years in your head? That is a song. Type it and hear it before you pay.
Read the lyrics and hear a preview before you pay
For a mom turning 70
What daughters and sons tell us they wish they had said, made into gifts.
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Her recipes, printed
The dishes she cooks from memory, collected and printed as a small book with the family notes in the margins.
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A garden that keeps going
A rose, a lemon tree, a bed of bulbs she will see every spring. Plant it with her.
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Something she does for everyone else, done for her
The Sunday lunch cooked by the kids. The house cleaned before she wakes. A week without being asked where anything is.
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A song from her children
One verse from each child, her name in the chorus, in the music she plays in the kitchen. One of the songs we made this year was for a mom turning 90; the story was three sentences.
For a dad turning 70
Fathers at seventy say they want nothing. Give them proof that somebody noticed.
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The team, in person
Tickets to the club he has followed since he was a boy, with a son or daughter beside him.
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His story, in a song
The job he worked, the girls he raised, the quad rides at sunset, the thing he always says at the door. In the music he plays in the truck, with his name in the chorus.
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A day doing the thing he taught you
Fishing, the hunt, the workshop, the long drive. With you doing the driving this time.
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The better version of what he uses every day
The knife, the gloves, the flask, the chair. He will not upgrade these himself; that is the gap.
If it has to be a thing
A few rules keep an object from ending up in the cupboard.
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A print of one photograph, framed large
Not a collage. One picture: the wedding, the first grandchild, the four of them on the beach in 1979.
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A subscription to something they already read
Twelve small deliveries beat one big one, and each one is a reminder.
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Something that replaces a thing they keep fixing
The kettle, the slippers, the reading lamp. Notice what they tolerate and end it.
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A good chair
The one thing at seventy that is worth spending real money on. Let them choose it.
What to skip
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Anything with "70" printed on it
Mugs, cushions, sashes. They know how old they are.
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Gadgets that need an app
A gift that comes with a setup call is a chore in a box.
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Age jokes, unless they make them
You know which kind of seventy-year-old you have.
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Anything that creates a job
A plant that needs a greenhouse, a 3,000-piece puzzle, a pet.
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A gift card
It says you did not know what to get, and at seventy they will read that correctly.
The one underneath all of them
Every idea on this page does the same job: it says the seventy years counted, and that the people in them noticed. The book, the recorded interview, the table with everyone at it, the song with the decades in the verses; each is a way of handing someone their own story back.
If you want the most direct version of that, write down what you would put in the letter and let the song say it. You type the story, read the lyrics, hear the whole song, and only pay if it sounds like them. The birthday songs page has real songs made for milestone birthdays, including one for a mom turning ninety, with the story the family typed next to the lyrics it became.
Seventy years, with their name in the chorus
Type the story. Read the lyrics, hear the whole song, and pay only if it sounds like them.
You read the lyrics and hear a preview before you pay.
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To Do or to Have? That Is the Question
Van Boven & Gilovich, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2003 | Experiences make people happier than possessions, and the gap widens with time.
Taking Time Seriously: A Theory of Socioemotional Selectivity
Carstensen, Isaacowitz & Charles, American Psychologist, 1999 | When people sense their time is limited, as in later life, they prioritize emotionally meaningful relationships and experiences over almost everything else.
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